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Every decision I make revolves around them, but everything that I do that I love robs me from them,” Rihanna shared about the challenges of balancing motherhood and career
Rihanna, whose real name is Robyn Fenty, spoke about the difficult trade-offs she navigates daily
Many celebrity moms have spoken candidly about the challenges of balancing their careers with motherhood. Now, Rihanna is sharing her own experience, revealing that every decision she makes revolves around her two sons, RZA and Riot. In a recent interview with Harper’s Bazaar, the singer and entrepreneur opened up about the emotional struggles she faces as a working mother.
The Struggles of a Working Mom
Rihanna, whose real name is Robyn Fenty, spoke about the difficult trade-offs she navigates daily. “Every decision I make revolves around them, but everything that I do that I love robs me from them. So I have a weird resentment with the things that I love. You almost feel like something is always suffering for you to show up somewhere,” she admitted. The Grammy-winning artist shared how this constant push-and-pull has led to feelings of guilt, making it challenging to be fully present in any aspect of her life.
After welcoming her first son, RZA, with A$AP Rocky in May 2022, and their second, Riot, in August 2023, Rihanna has had to reevaluate how she balances work, passion, and family. “I don’t like letting people down, but I also know that most of that is me letting myself down. Something has to change, but everything is on the wheel at all times,” she explained. Despite the struggles, she reminds herself why she does it all. “I have to keep reminding myself that I asked for this, I love this. I try to figure out a balance so that I can feel fulfilled when I show up to something—so I don’t have any guilt.”
Prioritizing Self-Care and Balance
For many moms, Rihanna’s words resonate deeply. The constant juggling of responsibilities often leads to guilt and self-doubt. If you’re struggling with similar feelings, remember to be kind to yourself. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Taking time for your well-being can help you feel more present, both at work and with your family.
